Engaged Couples - Who is on Your Support List?
There are people that are in your life from childhood that you can pick up the phone and call to this day. Then there are people that you met in college and it was only for that season. Then there’s that group that come into your life for a specific purpose and then they are gone. or a long time and there are people that come into your life for a season. The economy is financially affecting people all over the world. While you are preparing to walk down the aisle, more than likely you have had to re-evaluate your wedding plans.
As I was thinking about engaged couples this morning, I wanted to ask you to make a list. I want to ask you to take out some paper and make two columns. The first column write Have Talked to About Money and Money Secrets, the second column write Could Talk to About Money and Money Secrets.
Once you have done that, make your list. If you are on the left hand side and you have people on your list other than your groom, what are you waiting on? Why haven’t you talked to him? Are you aware that money is one of the top reasons for divorce. Are you willing to place your future marriage in jeopardy by not talking about money.
Let’s look at the second column - who could you talk to about money? If you have people on this list other than your groom - you should proceed with caution. The concern is that you have not talked to your groom and you don’t think you could for one reason or another. It takes money to pay for the wedding, purchase a house and a car as well as many other things. Why aren’t you talking to your groom.
I would like to know, who is your own your list. Send me your comments.